The purpose of this article is to clearly define what anyone I work with (e.g. potential clients) can expect from the provided services, and what I expect from them. After reading this article, there should be no doubt what are the boundaries and expectations for both parties.
As a strategic dating consultant my job is to help people who are ready to solve their problems, figure out what are the optimal strategies and corresponding tactics to their “dating dilemma.” This is very very different from therapy and what therapists do. If it helps, you can think of me more as the “father” and the therapist more as the “mother”. You go to the mother to feel safe, secure, and loved. You go to the father when you want to actually learn how to deal with reality and the problems you will face.
Needless to say, if what you’re looking for is an emotional outlet or any kind of emotional support you will not find that here: do not contact.
As your strategic dating consultant I am not here to cultivate a personal relationship with you. By that, I mean I strictly maintain a professional relationship with you at all times. While I do want you to succeed in your romantic endeavors, and I genuinely wish the best for you, I cannot and will not deviate from our strictly professional relationship. You should remain professional at all times. This is a boundary that can never be crossed. As an example of what would be unprofessional:
do not ever ask us personal questions of any kind
I am not here to be interviewed by you, nor am I interested in engaging with you on a personal level. Any failure to respect this boundary will result in immediate termination of your service (and any necessary refund based on the refund policy for paid services), and cessation of further communication:
you will be banned
For any and all current and future clients who want to know what “qualifications” I possess that justify the strategic guidance I offer, I would simply point you to any and all content that has been made available to the public. The wisdom and counsel I provide in this content (including blog articles, social media posts, etc) should be more than enough for you to know whether the provided services are sufficient for your needs. I will not under any circumstances provide “additional qualifications.” If you “feel” as though I have not provided enough “credentials”, please seek other service providers: do not contact. And if you should raise your concerns, or dissatisfaction to me about my qualifications:
you will be banned